Side chick

This is still seriously a work in progress, but it’s a demon i’ve been really battling with. Twenty-five days sober now, thanks to this lakers/kings game i went to.   I think I’m always the side chick.  I can’t tell if I fear commitment, or if people fear committing to me.  Maybe I don’t want […]

When an alcoholic is not an alcoholic – Part 2

Our first home together was a major milestone. We were 3 years into our IVF treatment by this time and drinking was now firmly embedded into our daily routine. This time however, we had our own home and were away from any prying eyes or sarcastic comments. My wife, however, was much stronger. She was […]

When an alcoholic is not an alcoholic – Part 1

I distinctly remember when I was younger my father once said to me: “make sure that it [booze] doesn’t get a grip of you”. At the time, I thought he was overreacting somewhat. In my eyes I was the same as any young man growing up. I would go out on a Friday and Saturday […]